When Should My Wife File For Spouse Benefits?
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In this podcast, Rusty explains to an inquiring husband when and how his wife (who is already receiving her SS retirement benefit) can claim her spousal benefit. There is an additional complication because this couple also has a disabled adult child who is now receiving benefits on the wife’s Social Security record.
Dear Rusty: My wife is 66 (born February 1960) and started taking Social Security retirement benefits just over one year ago at age 65. She was a stay-at-home Mom for most of her adult life. I turned 62 this past March, filed for benefits, and received my first SS payment recently for a May 2026 start. We are scheduled to meet with SSA in late July to initiate spousal benefits because my wife’s current benefits are less than 50% of mine. We also have an adult disabled son who receives Supplemental Security Income (SSI) and Social Security benefits (this split in benefit sources happened after my wife filed - that whole process was confusing and we don’t understand it). My question is around the spousal benefits (I was a career finance person but don’t completely understand the rules around this). We were going to file in July but is there any benefit to waiting until she turns 67? And will her 50% benefit be 50% of my lower benefit due to my filing at 62 or is that based on another amount? Signed: Confused Finance Guy
Rusty’s answer in brief
There is no advantage to waiting: because she already claimed her own retirement benefit, she is automatically deemed to file for the spousal benefit and cannot delay it. Her spouse benefit is based on half of her husband’s full-retirement-age amount, not on the smaller amount he took at 62.
Since she claimed her own benefit early and is adding the spousal “boost” a few months before her own full retirement age, her total will come to less than 50% of his. The family maximum may reduce the wife’s and the disabled son’s payments further, and the son should be moved onto his father’s higher earnings record.
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